"Less is More"
Most people have likely come across the famous expression that instructs us to live more simply: “Less is more.” What is behind this seemingly contradictory advice that tells us that less could give us “more?” The advice is in direct contrast to the modern American mindset and the message often found in mainstream media. While many people may agree that having fewer things in our life would be beneficial for us, it can prove to be difficult to actually integrate this way of thinking into our lifestyle.
When I think about this expression, diverse examples of its application come to mind. A popular example, ironically, is the overall message and meaning behind the film Fight Club. In Fight Club, Brad Pitt’s character says, “The things you own end up owning you.” As Edward Norton’s character was initially dedicated to having the perfect apartment accessories, modern society is likewise obsessed with collecting the hottest new item, getting enough “likes” on Facebook, having the newest fashions, phone, or gadget available.
When life becomes further dependent upon temporary material items for happiness, it’s easier to become less satisfied with what we already have. The simpler things in life usually bring the most joy and sense of peace. However, those simple things often get labeled as boring or taken for granted. Therefore, many look to advancements in technology or getting attention to fill up on excitement and, to a certain degree, a sense of meaning.
Living in poverty, as a monk, or overly depriving yourself of life’s pleasures isn’t necessary for a more meaningful or happy life. But, living in moderation is helpful in establishing happiness and balance. Often we take our family, friends, and even ourselves for granted. We easily forget the value that’s within our immediate environment.
Phones and dependency upon entertainment has made it difficult for us to appreciate a deep conversation, to learn a new language, or to play a musical instrument. The more we give our attention to entertainment, television, games, and phones, then we become less appreciative we are of peace, calm, and introspective thinking.
With easily accessible entertainment, we feel less motivated to grow or explore. When our needs are met vicariously through YouTube or various media outlets, we often become lazy. At our fingertips, we are able to see everything we could possibly want to see. However, there is one problem: it’s not actually us involved in doing anything. No amount of living through the eyes and actions of another can add true value and understanding to the feeling behind experiencing.
“Less is more” because we already have enough to enable happiness through nature, relationships, and connection. True happiness is getting in touch with yourself, God, your friends, and your family. Technology doesn’t need to be forsaken in hopes to find peace; however, it would be to one’s benefit to keep relationships and nature a priority. Life is more than media, TV, music, and “likes,” money, or attention.
Find peace in simply being yourself. When we love and give attention to others, life begins to deepen and become further enriched.
For related reading, please check out: Love is the Greatest.
