There's Enough to be Had

If we don’t keep our mind in check, it’s not difficult to find ourselves jealous of the success of others, especially if we feel like we’ve been working hard. Sometimes it’s not even a conscious thought, just a feeling of resentment or jealousy that almost seems to automatically appear when we hear of the good fortune of someone else. Life has so much in it, and the best stuff is even free. There’s enough happiness to be had, and sometimes a “success” or “fortune” of another person doesn’t always yield positive consequences.

Life is full of opportunities. I find that travel, exploring, and engaging in a new opportunity brings me the most satisfaction. It’s a kind of happiness that can’t be taken away from you. Experience and adventure will always remain with the one who explores. In contrast, if I worked really hard to buy a Lamborghini or Porsche, then I could feel pretty great about myself. However, I would have the additional headache of constantly being alert to make sure that it isn’t scratched or broken into. Additionally, it’s just a physical machine made from metals that will corrode over time and disappear – a tragedy of impermanence.

When we get wrapped up in expensive things and consider the acquisition of such things a “success,” then it’s easy to let the free things of life elude our appreciation. However, there are fewer things in life more beautiful than a sunrise, sunset, or a field of flowers. There’s something genuinely satisfying and grounding about getting back into nature and allowing one’s self to remain in awe of it.

There’s nothing wrong with money, cars, and obtaining things. However, it becomes a problem if jealousy, greed, and a want for more things begin to take over and cast a shadow of inadequacy on everything we love. There’s plenty to be grateful for. Money doesn’t make anyone better, smarter, and more “valuable.” There are a lot of rich people who the world views as successful. However, at what cost does “success” come? Exploiting others, being absent from the family, or breaking some rules are not uncommon when the love of money prevails.

If the game of gaining seems to be overwhelming, some moments in silence or prayer is often needed. Initially, it may seem impossible to sit still when your mind has been going a hundred miles an hour to keep up with competition. However, stillness and peace can be more easily obtained when we see the importance that it offers. A peaceful and relaxed mind will produce a more successful life.

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