Communication

Communication is key in allowing others to have a full understanding of what we hope to convey. While this may seem obvious, it’s easy to find ourselves in a position of hoping that the person listening will understand our implications, tone of voice, or body position when we talk and get our entire meaning without it being explicitly stated. This is especially true with conversations in which we may not say everything on our mind for fear of offending the other person.

However, in order to have effective communication and risk having an embarrassing conversation later, we need to elaborate with effective words. Being effective with words doesn’t mean that we need to be offensive when the situation is delicate. There will be times when people need to know that we stand for something and we have our own beliefs about various matters. However, effective words also means being respectful while stating one’s mind.

There are times in which it’s necessary to explain behavior or actions to others because they may receive the wrong message. While it’s not our duty to worry about what’s on the minds of other people, it’s important to be mindful of our relationships and the effects we may have on those around us. If we’re feeling upset or angry, and our behavior reflects our aggravation, then we may need to explain to friends, family, and those closest to us about why we’re feeling upset. Without communication, assumptions are easily made and misunderstandings begin to perpetuate themselves.

While some people may natural feel more shy and uncomfortable voicing their opinions, it’s worthwhile to focus on building up self-esteem so that what needs to be said can be said. Often times, shyness is developed by not believing that what you have to say will be respected or received well. Everyone has a right to their own opinion, and it’s better for them to voice it, gain feedback, and further establish understanding through communication.

Gaining a sense of self-respect and confidence can be gained by living in integrity, which cultivates security and well-being. Self-respect and communication go hand-in-hand to build a better social environment for everyone. On the other hand, arrogance is something entirely different and should be avoided. We can see arrogance by its fruits. Arrogance thrives on looking important, cutting others down, and causes negativity to permeate for selfish reasons. Self-respect includes being respectful to others, even when we believe them to be wrong.

There will always be people who think we’re wrong – no matter how much we communicate. If you’ve done all you’ve can and you know you’re doing the right thing, then it’s time to let that opinion go. Just because someone thinks you’re wrong doesn’t mean that you actually are. Belief in one’s self, messages, and goals, will do a lot for peace of mind – Just make sure you come from a place of love~

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