Redundancy

No matter how many times the same concepts are complained about, repeated, or emphasized - redundancy is a sign of needed growth and understanding. What’s interesting to note about redundancy is that the older generations tend to fall into this category. In terms of debate or commentary, redundancy is often preferred rather than approaching an argument from a different angle than previously addressed.

The mistake of a redundancy lies in a lack of creativity and a hope that the one opposite the argument will see the logic to a single opinion, although the argument has passed. While the original argument may have had valuable points addressed, there are always two sides of a coin. Moreover, what needs to be understood by someone falling into redundancy is that often arguments are only applicable within specific contexts. What may be relevant to one generation may not be applicable to another generation due to social and economical differences.

To overcome redundancy, all one really needs to do is listen. It should take literally no effort to simply sit and listen (although it may seem impossible for some to do so). Engaging in a debate doesn’t mean that anyone’s character is going to be attacked by association. A healthy debate is a means for two or more people to break down opinions and hopefully come to a mutual conclusion. Although, the ego generally wants to be right and hates to find itself in a position of submission to another.

This is often why the older generation may find difficulty with redundancy. It’s easy to cultivate conclusions relevant to one’s own experiences. While one may be well meaning to a younger generation, it may not be completely applicable. Additionally, the ego is often more stubborn to changing its stance when its being changed due to the opinion of a younger person. The ego hates “submission” to a younger generation – although, it should not be viewed as submission. Life is simply changing and no one should blind themselves from the continuing volatility of generational differences.

When we find ourselves being redundant, we’re not driving home an important point with effective power. Most people are capable of understanding an opinion upon the first time of hearing it. If we find ourselves being redundant, it would be in one’s benefit to think about what the main concern is. Often redundancy is a way of beating around the bush. When we get straight to the point, then we’re able to engage in an effective discussion.

For further related reading, please check out: Be Brief, Be Brilliant, Be Gone.