I Can and I Will
Simple words can make for powerful results. The more we over-think something is the moment we begin to doubt our capability. When we decide what’s worth our time, then we need to begin doing it. Create a schedule if needed, but we just need to start doing something. The hardest part is the beginning – taking that time to learn the ropes, to allow for mistakes, and to get things moving smoothly.
While some people like to learn how to do something completely before they begin, others, such as myself, like to learn while in the process of doing something. I’ve never liked reading instructions, or reading about out the technical details of everything. It’s always been much more enjoyable for me to dive into something headfirst. However, properly learning how something works is necessary for some tasks. Sloppy technique will produce sloppy results, so we must be careful in assessing what we need to do before starting something new.
Once we get into a routine, things become easier. If we are inconsistent, then we are not going to see results. It’s ideal if we can do the same activity, for the same amount of time, during a set scheduled time. Although we are not robots, and our schedules will have fluctuations, it’s quite helpful to have a schedule to stay on task.
A positive mindset is incredibly valuable. While this may seem obvious or overstated, there is a reason why it’s brought up so often. We determine our own outcomes. We’re not here to compete against others but to better ourselves. We should only be measuring up to the standard of the best we can do with the abilities that we have. It’s silly to make a goal of being “the strongest,” of being “famous,” or of being “the best in a field.” These are all relative, and the pinnacle is debatable. I read about an Olympic gold medalist who said the day after winning the gold medal was a depressing day. The goal had been accomplished, and nothing was next.
A goal should have its rewards, but it shouldn’t be take the place of the purpose of life. Obsession destroys those who pursue it. When we have a firm grip on purpose, then we don’t pursue our goals and passions with a blind hope that it will bring us meaning. The goals we accomplish in life are for enjoyment, for development, for a deeper understanding. Goals in themselves do not make us more valuable as people. What’s important to you and why does it motivate you?
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